I ran into someone at the store who had done the family scrolls. She did a different version of it. She was having difficulty with her 16 yr old stepson. He wouldn’t talk much to her nor would he make direct eye contact. She decided to give him a scroll with what she loved about him.
She said that he read it, looked into eyes intently and said, “Thank you, I really appreciate this!” She was so happy.
I know this seems a little small but sometimes we give up on a family member and we forget that something this small can make a BIG difference.